A Closer Look at Toxic Masculinity: Are Women Just as Abusive?
Men are violent by nature, and this is a fact! Every man out there has the potential to be a monster, and you don’t need to look very far to find some examples of what I am talking about rapists, pedophiles, and school shooters. These men do exist, no question about it, BUT they represent […]
Achraf Hakimi Divorce Part 2: The Ex-Wife Strikes Back
Update on Achraf Hakimi’s divorce 2 weeks ago, I wrote a piece on the divorce between Moroccan soccer player Achraf Hakimi and Spanish actress Hiba Abouk. I was glad to hear that a man had found a way to protect his assets from ending up in the wrong hands. And by wrong hands, I mean […]
Could Maslow’s Hierarchy Of Needs Explain Depression in Men?
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs In 1954, American psychologist Abraham Maslow created a psychological model called Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. Theorizing that humans have 2 sets of needs: deficiency and growth. And that these 2 sets of needs are divided into 5 stages: Physiological needs, Safety and Security, Love and Belonging, Self-Esteem, and Self-Actualization. The deficiency […]
Innocent until proven guilty: What 6 years of MeToo has taught us!
In North America, our law system is based on the presumption of innocence. Anybody accused of a crime is assumed innocent until proven guilty. But what happens when the fate of the accused is decided before they even see the inside of a courtroom? Welcome to the MeToo Era. Wikipedia describes the MeToo movement as […]
How Embracing My Purpose Has Changed My Life
3 and a half years ago, I started questioning my identity. At 38 years of age, I had come to a point where I had lost myself. I was my career. I was Nico, the sales engineer. I made my career my purpose for so long that I had forgotten that this was just a […]
How Being Grateful Changed My Life, And Could Change Yours Too
I always want more, and I will always will! I’m a very disciplined and driven person. But every day, I am grateful for my life. For the people I share it with and for everything I am accomplishing. Everything happens for a reason It’s important to understand that everything happens for a reason and that […]
Why you Should Protect Yourself Before Getting Married
Men are providers Don’t believe the narrative that is being pushed by feminists. Women want a man that will provide for them and make them feel safe. If you want a good woman, it is your duty as a good man to do so. One of the virtues of a good man is that he […]
Could Veterans Be the Answer to School Shootings?
(Image: (Photo by Roy Rochlin/Getty Images)) A couple of weeks ago, Irish MMA fighter Connor McGregor tweeted that schools across the United States should have armed guards to protect the students. That this is the way to tackle school shootings. I don’t like his antics as a fighter, but on this topic, we agree! I’ve […]
Alex Pereira Weight Cuts – How Much Is Too Much
How much is too much weight? Alex Pereira cuts around 50 lbs to fight at 185 lbs!!! How much is too much weight? What are acceptable weight cuts? I remember the East vs. West rivalry between Pride Fighting Championship and The Ultimate Fighting Championship. Yep, I’m that old, LOL. We were all wondering who had […]
Rites of Passage – How They Could Help Boys Become Good Men
Rites of Passage around the world By nature, men are purpose-driven. They need a reason to live, something to do, to chase after, and to become. Boys are no different, but unlike their adult counterparts, they lack the life experience and wisdom to know what their purpose should be. Thus, the importance to have mature […]